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Gifted Kids and School Selection

There are many factors that should be considered when choosing a school environment for a gifted child, and these factors might change at different ages and under different situations.

Your Child

  • Temperament - Extroverted or Introverted?

  • Motivation - Attitude Toward Competition

  • Evenness or Unevenness of Abilities

  • Extent of Advanced Abilities

Some children are like wildflowers - they can thrive anywhere. But others are more like hothouse plants with specific conditions to help them thrive. 

Extroverted gifted children may prefer going to school over homeschooling or independent study. Some may really stretch their abilities with other bright children or even friendly rivals.

Introverted children may also do well in school if they find their niche, but others may be exhausted by the hubbub of large classes, and just shut down.

Sometimes decisions about exclusive schools need to be made very early in a child's development (like Kindergarten or preschool entry), so awkward changes need to be considered if the goodness of school fit changes as the child matures.

Parents often underestimate the extent of a child's precocity in certain areas. We generally recommend assessment in order to help guide school choices. But be aware that very advanced abilities can make the goodness of fit difficult. Most of the profoundly gifted children that we know have had either independent study, advanced online coursework, multi-year acceleration, or homeschooling / tutoring option in order to meet appropriate levels of challenge, and be happy too. In some cases, school allow students 'out' of classes for their highly advanced subjects - so they can take online courses or other accelerated curricula appropriate to their ability level.

The main cautions with rapid acceleration (multi-grade skipping) are child's motivation and writing abilities be sufficient to allow him to keep up with the increased work demands of higher grades. Social maturity should also be considered, too, because it also may be emotionally difficult to backtrack on a decision to accelerate in the future.

Social factors may also contribute to the happiness of school fit. Some children are very sensitive to social and emotional aspects of intellectual differences. We have seen some precocious children shunned by age peers when the intellectual match wasn't appropriate, only to emerge as leaders in a different school or class setting.

Introverted children who are highly driven to areas of their own interest may also see school as an unwelcome intrusion, and become worn down if given insufficient time for their personal projects.

The Schools

  • Conventional, Alternative, Preparatory

  • Flexible for Individual Students?

  • Quality of Teachers and Turnover Rate

  • School Resources, Extracurriculars, After School

Many decisions go into the choice of a school. There may be wide variations in the organization of gifted programs, varying from 1 hour pull-outs to full time self-contained TAG classes.

In general, full day gifted programs or schools are the most desirable. Twice exceptional, highly creative, and those with extreme abilities may fit in better with an alternative or homeschool format.

Often parents have to do significant research to find out how the school has approached individualization or grade skipping. Some schools really prefer to group gifted children by age, and this may or may not be the best for their child.

Many gifted or college preparatory schools have excellent teachers, but small schools may always struggle with teacher turnover and faculty unhappiness. A little research can help you make plans.

Student resources can be very important depending on your child's hobbies and interests. The advantages of larger schools are an increased chance of finding a best friend, more team sports or interests clubs, and good preparation for the next educational step.

If you might be in for a long commute, do practice drives rush hour, and think about how your child does in the car. Some gifted children with sensory sensitivities may be exhausted with the long ride, while other find it energizing and enjoy talking or reading in the car or bus.

 


 


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